In a bad moodVery irritableVery upsetI know I'm going to have a periodIt’s just that I’m very unhappy these few days of the monthAnd it's easy to get angry with my boyfriend, I think he is innocent.I do not know what to doI regret every time I lose my temperbutBut I just couldn't help itBut I think this will affect the relationshipWhat should I do>
It is often said that giving up is a kind of beauty? But I really want to ask, is giving up really a kind of beauty? Why do two people who love each other give up on each other?In fact, to say that giving up is a kind of beauty is just a self-justified idea! To put it bluntly, it is to give yourself a step down, just ask the men and women in love who don't want to be with their beloved? The answer must be 100%! Now that I think, why do you give up the other party so easily? If giving up is really a kind of beauty, then why does the heart still hurt after giving up? How do you feel when you wish the other person happiness for you? Can you really achieve the blessing without worry? Can you really feel like wishing a friend? When you say something like this, can you really let go, or do you feel painful in your heart?In fact, neither of us wants to give up any of us, it's just that the problems between the two have not been resolved...all
People often say that giving up is a kind of beauty? But I really want to ask, is giving up really a kind of beauty? Why do two people who love each other give up on each other? In fact, to say that giving up is a kind of beauty is just a self-justified idea! To put it bluntly, it is to give yourself a step down, just ask the men and women in love who don't want to be with their beloved? The answer must be 100%! Now that I think, why do you give up the other party so easily? If giving up is really a kind of beauty, then why does the heart still hurt after giving up? How do you feel when you wish the other person happiness for you? Can you really achieve the blessing without worry? Can you really feel like wishing a friend? When you say something like this, can you really let go of it, or do you feel painful in your heart? In fact, neither of us wants to give up any of us, it's just that the problems between the two sides have not been resolved, and the emotions of both sides are ignorantly invaded by the other side! If both parties can sit down peacefully, open each other's hearts and talk, so that the other party can understand what you think, what you are thinking, what you want to do, and what you want.
Analyze specific issues in detail, so that the root of the problem is solved. If when the other party wants to confess everything, but the other party still sinks into the other party's ignorance, then the role of the other party will not work. As the saying goes, "One slap can't make a sound", that's the truth. In the process of getting along, everyone will make mistakes! We are just ordinary people, and it is inevitable that we will make some mistakes that make the right unacceptable at some point, but it is normal! Is it so difficult that you can guarantee that you haven't made a mistake that makes the other party unacceptable? When we find that there is a mistake in the other party, we should talk to the other party in time instead of vomiting.
Nausea cannot solve the problem, it will only make the problem more vicious, and the problem will become more and more intense in the end! And the final ending is a quarrel, the more trouble the matter gets, the more violent, so as to translate the fate of the breakup! When we encountered a problem, everyone became very emotional and excited! Looks like he can't wait to explode! If when we can be more rational, both sides sit down calmly; analyze the problem thoroughly, why do we quarrel because of this problem, and where is the reason for our quarrel? This way we can find the root of the problem, and it will be much easier for us to solve it! If when the problem arises, we both stick to our principles; we both thinkIt's the other party's fault. Why should I apologize first, and the fault is not on me. Why! If both sides hold this attitude, then we think their fate can only end with a "breakup"! I remember I once read a book, and there is a sentence in it that says so! If two people with similar personalities are together, then the other party's mentality must be positive! I think this sentence is right, because if two people with the same personality are together, the other party really should have a positive attitude! For example, if two people with strong personalities come together, and quarrels occur in the process! If both of them adhere to their own principles and let no one think that they are not wrong; they do not realize that they are going to find the root of the problem, and just stick to their own emotions, then their fate As you can imagine! If this is the case, then the saying that "giving up is also a kind of beauty" is really fulfilled! Because there is no tolerance or understanding between two people together, it is simply a torture. It is better to give up! In fact, when men and women in love have problems, they have forgotten why they came together in the first place! And what I think of is that the other party is not, because the other party does not understand him enough and does not accommodate him enough.
What I think in my heart is: I am your male (female) friend, you can't let me order! In fact, this kind of thinking is normal, but you shouldn't always have this mentality to associate with each other. Because everyone needs to understand and accommodate; it's not just you need it! You should also think about the other party, why the other party can accommodate you, but you can not accommodate her! He is also your other half! Have you forgotten that you came together for "love"? Have you forgotten the promise you made together? Although it looks a bit far away, this is also a way of expressing the other person's love for you! If you change to someone else, do you think the other party will make such a promise? The important thing is that he really fulfills the promise you made at the beginning, because this is a kind of responsibility, whether it is for you or for him, it is necessary! Someone spends a lifetime to understand love, wondering exactly what constitutes love.
But often he can't find the answer. More importantly, he doesn't know that the answer he wants has been told to him in his limited life! From a certain point of view, love has a wide range. To put it bluntly, there are thousands of answers to love, and even tens of thousands, but what we are searching for is only one of them, and this kind of answer is already in the process of our love. Tell us what love is! Every love is a different way of giving, and we just pick one from it as the starting point of our love.
It’s just a different way of understanding and a different starting point! But in the final analysis, what we have in common is to love for "love"! In fact, we don't want to fall in love with anyone. Human nature is selfish! We don't want to fall in love with anyone, we only fall in love with the other's request! It's so hard to love someone! But looking at love from another point of view, that's not all! Love can make you beautiful and confident! When you are lonely, there is love to accompany you, then you will not feel lonely. When you feel lost, love can fill all the vacancies in your heart. When you are wandering in the dark, love can guide you to find The way home! How wonderful this feeling is! Isn't this what we need? Why bother to find the answer that will never be found! We should be grateful for love! Because the other party has a gratuitous obligation to pay for you, in a sense, he does not need to pay gratuitously.
It's just that you are his other half, and you are his favorite person. And he is willing to do anything for you; even if it is an unrequited contribution or one day you will leave him, he is willing to give it! But people are not without feelings. You should know in your heart why he does this; and we must also learn to be grateful! Love and being loved are both happy. When you really love someone with your heart, your heart is filled with happiness. Don’t deliberately pick up on the shortcomings of the other person. Love needs more tolerance. After a long time, you may Suddenly you will find that you are really alike, each is the other half of each other; you are him, he is you! In the process of love, we will find that we will slowly lose ourselves and become more and more like him (her)! But when you lose yourself, you will also find that you have earned while losing! Because he has become more and more like you.
Suppose he (she) was originally a happy and carefree person, but fell in love with the sentimental you! But after a long time, he (she) has also been infected by you and became just like you, a little sentimental! And you become happy by his infection! Love is like this, when you lose, you also earn yourself! Don't be too deliberate to ask the one you love, no one is perfect.
onlyIf you want his (her) five perfect five beauties plus your five perfect five beauties, then you will become perfect! Learn to tolerate, learn to understand, learn to accommodate, learn to be grateful for love! To tolerate others is to tolerate yourself! Keep a tolerant and grateful heart, only then will you love happier and longer-term love on the road of love! Only by not asking for the best can you accept the one you love calmly and calmly.
This kind of love is plain and deep. Although admitted that it is not the best, you can still love it. Doesn't this in itself reflect the simplicity and purity of love? Not asking for the best, it is also a kind of indifferent and tranquil mind, and tranquility can be far away; the love contained in this mind will accompany you through the ups and downs of a lifetime. .
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